It’s a hard time for some of us if we aren’t willing to change. I did things I regret and I own my actions. I’ll try to set an example for both my son and daughter where they are better than me.
It starts at home, but also with the way older male influences taught me that treating women a certain way was expected and acceptable. That’s why we need to take a stand now even against things we thought were “ok”. If we aren’t a better example on gender etc… nothing will change.