you know what sux . When one person diminishes someone else’s experience , by comparing it to another similar experience from someone else . As if the two are linked in any way shape or form !
eg. “My dad used to beat me when I was a kid , it messed me up so much I became a drug addict “
” well my dad used to beat me as well , and I became a multi millionaire….. harden up “
Whenever I hear/see / read this it really grinds My gears at the pure arrogance , to even think this is even remotely relevant or reality.
Not taking into account , context , severity , types , or any kind of variable that could lead to a completely different experience. Not to mention , everybody deals with shit very differently , where a simple harsh word can be laughed off by most , but for some can be soul crushing.
To compare Benji experience to Nofa is insulting to both parties. They’re absolutely chalk And cheese .
If that period of Nofas Life messed him up , where he thought he had no home and nowhere to turn ,that the way he talks about it “him being homeless” might have everything to do with his appreciation for the family friend who took him in , and absolutely nothing to do grandstanding .
People did this with Brooks. They couldn’t separate the player on the field with the human being .Some horrendous shit got spouted ,and now I see it with the 2024 captain Scapegoat .
don’t get it twisted either . I think Nofa has much like brooks , become entitled and selfish , having spent his whole career in a losing team , but that has zero to do with his childhood , or is like A Scarlett A tattooed on his chest. It’s just footy .
eg. “My dad used to beat me when I was a kid , it messed me up so much I became a drug addict “
” well my dad used to beat me as well , and I became a multi millionaire….. harden up “
Whenever I hear/see / read this it really grinds My gears at the pure arrogance , to even think this is even remotely relevant or reality.
Not taking into account , context , severity , types , or any kind of variable that could lead to a completely different experience. Not to mention , everybody deals with shit very differently , where a simple harsh word can be laughed off by most , but for some can be soul crushing.
To compare Benji experience to Nofa is insulting to both parties. They’re absolutely chalk And cheese .
If that period of Nofas Life messed him up , where he thought he had no home and nowhere to turn ,that the way he talks about it “him being homeless” might have everything to do with his appreciation for the family friend who took him in , and absolutely nothing to do grandstanding .
People did this with Brooks. They couldn’t separate the player on the field with the human being .Some horrendous shit got spouted ,and now I see it with the 2024 captain Scapegoat .
don’t get it twisted either . I think Nofa has much like brooks , become entitled and selfish , having spent his whole career in a losing team , but that has zero to do with his childhood , or is like A Scarlett A tattooed on his chest. It’s just footy .