I hate blaming referees Jolls, but momentum is very difficult to slow, whether you're going forwards or backwards. Watching the Storm game, we were on the backfoot from the outset and Melbourne were on the front. If the ref pulled up every forward pass, the Storm wouldn't have had that momentum, we get some football and it doesn't turn into a flogging. Not saying we would have won, just not been flogged. The ref can slow a side down by penalizing them or speed them up by not. He let Melbourne rip.
In the Souths game, he could have binned Mitchell but chose not to, even though the same act from a different players earned a trip to the bin. In a tight game, these decisions matter. We're not getting the 50/50 calls and we're not good enough to win without them.