I have learnt so much about people since this cursed pandemic as well as myself...
Its fantastic to see other humans helping others through dire times and a simple conversation and some compassion goes a long way in helping some one become more grounded and less anxious during depressing times..
I have also seen people belittle others for not having the same point of view as their own,an eg of this was at the supermarket a couple of months ago,an individual was publicly scorned for not being vaxxed,they were related,cousins I think...the point being,if he wasnt vaxxed so be it,what good is scorning him in public and what effect other than pure embarassment could that have on the individual...does he go home and keep thinking,if I dont get the vax will I no longer be accepted within the family as a whole,am I a bad person for chosing my own health...
situations go both way...I have learnt that compassion and thoughtfulness as well as love and a sensible approach to people of varying opinions goes along way...
I have been involved in many arguments on this forum as far as opinions go,whether Im wrong or right the discussions have many different outcomes...BUT they are discussions..
When personal attacks lead to despise or dislike,then we need to stop and think about the people that are being attacked...to be honest for eg I know many on here personally and I consider them friends,we dont always agree on things,move on and have a great day...
The really bad thing is when some one such as the supermarket incident happens,then we dont know what that scorning can lead to...people have been mentally shattered because of loss of jobs,divorce,suicides and depression in general..
In times such as these we should become more understanding,sympathetic and comforting other than critical...none of us know what really can set someone off onto a course of mental destruction,it maybe a simple word, gesture or action..
I will leave you with these words..."We are all Gods children"with varying thoughts,likes,dislikes and personalities,if we were all exactly the same,how boring that would be...