Yeah it's going well. I won't lie that it has been very tough and trying but I've noticed a few things:
- I can tolerate crying now. Well, his. I still cringe at other children but his doesn't seem to bother me;
- Dirty nappies don't gross me out, nor does being peed or pooed on (see Geo's post above😉
- He's a bit more durable than I expected. You're gentle with them, but you realise just how strong they can be at times so you learn that you don't have to carry them around like a delicate flower;
- I love being around him. I cherish all the time I have got to spend with him and I will find it hard to leave him and the wife at home when I go back to work;
- My wife is a natural mother. She was very iffy with newborn children (was always great with toddlers though,) prior to baby CB, but as soon as he was born it was like a switch flipped. She is great around him;
- It's settled me as a person. He has taught me patience.
I'm actually enjoying this phase, even though he doesn't interact too much it's nice to see him need/want us so much.
- I can tolerate crying now. Well, his. I still cringe at other children but his doesn't seem to bother me;
- Dirty nappies don't gross me out, nor does being peed or pooed on (see Geo's post above😉
- He's a bit more durable than I expected. You're gentle with them, but you realise just how strong they can be at times so you learn that you don't have to carry them around like a delicate flower;
- I love being around him. I cherish all the time I have got to spend with him and I will find it hard to leave him and the wife at home when I go back to work;
- My wife is a natural mother. She was very iffy with newborn children (was always great with toddlers though,) prior to baby CB, but as soon as he was born it was like a switch flipped. She is great around him;
- It's settled me as a person. He has taught me patience.
I'm actually enjoying this phase, even though he doesn't interact too much it's nice to see him need/want us so much.