I prefer to view it like I see you and myself, each a unique individual that was born with certain attributes and development that was already predetermined by our genetic make-up. You have been further moulded by your upbringing, environmental and situational, along with latter life choices and experiences, to now be filled with a combination of happy memories and degrees of suffering, with everything in between as do I.
Had chance swapped one of each of our parents, we would both be very different individuals, one of us could even be a transgender person as a result, else we could be an uncle of or dealing with a child of ours that is. Statistically, probably not, but it narrows as the family tree grows and we have no say in it, just as the transgender individual doesn't.
Generational thoughts as a whole are certainly a powerful factor, which engenders those growing up within it. I grew up surrounded by plenty of ignorance, but was fortunate to have a caring father and a great year 6 teacher that helped break me from it.
Good grief, are you hinting I'm ignorant because that's the way I fell from a tree?
I said not long ago that we have a homosexual golfer in our team who acts like one if the boys.
He's a great fella. The reason why he fits in with us is because he doesn't act or push his preferences onto us and make us feel uncomfortable.
His existence does not have anything to do with my lifestyle. If it did, I would distance myself from him. That's my right.
Same goes for a hetrosexual couple kissing and carressing on a crowded bus, you just don't do it.
The point is, you can't make rules or act in a particular way that is going to affect the majority.
Your talking about ones mindset and attitudes. Individuals can't thrust this or their agenda onto anyone. That's how wars start.
The reason we have the lifestyle we enjoy today is because we worked so dammed hard to get to where we are now.
Passing the buck and wiping our hands by throwing it in the too hard basket is not the right thing to do.
I agree that transexuals, transgenders etc do have the right to live their lives in a way they feel comfortable with but not if it is to the detriment of other people's core values and emotions.
I'm not saying they can't have surgery, treatment and act feminine either, that's not my point.
I hope in 10-30 years from now there is a wonderful society for my grandkids.
I hope that babies aren't applied for and chivalry is still going. Treat women as ladies and act like gentleman.
Just be careful in erecting a hyperdome before the roads and traffic system leading to and away from it are improved, that's all I'm saying.
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