@ said:@ said:@ said:@ said:A secret ballot because that's the only chance of politicians voting to represent the views of their constituents as opposed to the views imposed on them by their party. For example, I can't imagine Pauline Hanson allowing One Nation members to support gay marriage in an open ballot. Equally, I can't imagine Labor members being allowed to vote their consciences if they oppose it. Personally, I favour a plebiscite because I regard this as one of the biggest, if not the biggest, social issues in 50 years. I think the cost is justified given the importance of the issue.
But how is it the biggest social issue in 50 years? How does this effect you at all? If lesbians got married to tomorrow how would anything change for you? I just don't understand why anyone cares enough to oppose it apart from just not liking gay people.
In my opinion it **is** the biggest social issue in 50 years. You may have a different view and are entitled to that view. But, with respect, please don't characterise me as "just not liking gay people". You don't know me. I have gay friends, male and female, who know my views and don't have a problem with them. Some of them are for gay marriage and others don't care one way or the other. I have a view that marriage is a bond between a man and a woman. Others have different views. That's what makes the world go around.
I was making a general observation, I didn't characterise you as anything.
Why do you care though? How does it affect you? I again ask you, if gay people got married tomorrow how does it undermine the concept of marriage. Why should it only be between a man and a woman?
You can think what you want but why should you get to tell other people they can't get married?
I really don't think this is going anywhere useful for you and it certainly isn't for me.