‘My brother would be very proud’: The horrific accident driving Utoikamanu’s Origin debut
When Stefano Utoikamanu runs onto Suncorp Stadium for his State of Origin debut, his thoughts will drift to his close brother.
“It’s massive. Unfortunately he can’t play footy any more, but I’m always thinking of him when I play,” Utoikamanu said. “I can’t wait to go out there and do him proud.”
Utoikamanu will fulfil a childhood ambition by pulling on the NSW jersey on Wednesday night, one that was once shared by older brother Filia. Despite a one-year age gap, the siblings played in the same junior teams and both appeared destined for big things.
That is, until Filia’s career came to a shuddering halt after breaking his neck in a lower-grade fixture in 2017. Doctors said Filia was fortunate to avoid quadriplegia, but his footballing career came to a premature end.
“He’s definitely someone I want to make proud,” Utoikamanu said. “I think he is proud of me. He is someone I always think about when I run out onto the field.
“[We played in the same teams] all the time, I was doing that since I was five. My mum used to chuck us in together and everyone thought we were twins because I was just as big as him. It was good times, we made a lot of good memories together.
“I’m grateful I got to play alongside him. He still comes to my games, I always ask him if he wants tickets and he comes when he wants.” Utoikamanu has overcome other obstacles to realise his Origin dream. A broken leg ruined an entire Harold Matthews season and then the Cabramatta junior suffered successive season-ending shoulder surgeries.
“I’m lucky enough to play good enough footy to be picked in this team. I’m very excited and can’t wait to run out there.”
Utoikamanu was trained by his father, Kava, while mother Esther has been a tireless supporter. They are among the many family members he will think of in the lead up to the game, including his two-and-a-half-year-old son.
“Definitely, I just want to be a good role model for him and the next couple of kids I have, if I have any more,” he said. “Hopefully he can look at my life and learn a few things.”
In a nod towards his influence on the Tigers, the 23-year-old was named as captain for a pre-season trial, is part of the leadership group and is also the club’s delegate to the Rugby League Players’ Association. Already, he has stated a goal of one day captaining the joint-venture outfit the Wests Tigers. (SMH)
(Stef with his brother Filia in their youth).