Thanks for asking BZN: Cricket, tennis and squash I was OK, but was never able to excel in any of them.
Although, with the rite guidance I could probably have done a bit better than OK at cricket and athletics, but not the sprint distances.
Your story was an interesting read btw 👍with 2 relo's that refereed at a Very High level but robbed of the big one 🙁.
I don't remember the incident to which you are referring, and I won't ask your relo's names, but would be interesting for the Forum to know anyway 🙂.
Could have been a case of your relative not being prepared to kiss bums to get to the top.
I knew a bloke many years ago that umpired 1st grade cricket in Sydney.
Every week he received good reviews for his umpiring, but he wasn't the sort of guy that was prepared to kiss bums either, so he never progressed any further.