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[tig_prmz]

Lol maybe the guy didn't know she's married. The girl however..:

Having been through a cheating gf though, I felt moe hatred towards her than the guys

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[dazza65]

As per GNR and Hobbo : I'm not a violent person and really try to avoid conflict if truth be known, however if pushed into a situation I may punch on with a guy but I would never do the same with a female, regardless of how "equal" the feminists and GenY's try to make out they are. If that makes me old fashioned and a relic from another era so be it. My two teenaged boys also know better than to hit females. Simple really.

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[hobbo]

As per GNR and Hobbo : I'm not a violent person and really try to avoid conflict if truth be known, however if pushed into a situation I may punch on with a guy but I would never do the same with a female, regardless of how "equal" the feminists and GenY's try to make out they are. If that makes me old fashioned and a relic from another era so be it. My two teenaged boys also know better than to hit females. Simple really.

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I told my young bloke when he was 5 that you can't hit girls , but I told him that his sister ( 7 at the time ) that she's fair game lol

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[Tony33]

Lol maybe the guy didn't know she's married. The girl however..:

Having been through a cheating gf though, I felt moe hatred towards her than the guys

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The girlfriend in this situation is most at fault but i agree with GNR in that females are percieved as physically weaker and more vulnerable; thus hitting a girl should never be condoned. However i don't blame him for being angered at seeing his girlfriend naked with another guy. He should've known better though and taken it out on the bloke haha

My girlfriend was trying to break up a fight between a friend and another idiot a few weeks ago and the scum purposely punched her in the face and then blamed her saying it was her fault for getting in the way. Any male who hits a girl in my eyes is a patheic individual looking for a boost in self-esteem at the consequence of a weaker person. Scum.

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[Tim Sheens]

About time that the NRL has defined the line in the sand in relation to violence against women. These young players have been well schooled in this and many other areas, so deserve to be adequately punished when they cross it.

I too would simply turn and keep walking if my mrs played up on me. If she chose to do such, well, he can have her.

 

[Tigermama]

Violence is unacceptable regardless of who its against. Nothing ever good comes of anything physical, it only has the potential in destroying your life or somebody elses. That may sound a touch dramatic, but its really not. You throw a punch these days and someone can easily pull a knife, or you throw a punch and they drop and they hit their head the wrong way and its disaster. Its not worth the trouble at the end of the day.

However

The reason why hitting women its frowned upon, or one of the reasons is because overall women are usually physically the weaker sex. I think that's what it boils down to. I was taught from a very early age that you don't hit women. Its an old school mentality that still exists today. Think it goes back to the old days when Men were the main breadwinners and it was their job to provide for and protect their wives. Talking about equality is fine, but you cannot include a defenseless woman getting slapped around by her bf who weighs 50kg's more than her as equal.

Well said GNR. It amazes me that some people still don't get why violence against women, is not ok….. For that matter violence on any level ( physical, verbal ) should never be tolerated no matter what gender a person is. Women, children and the elderly especially, must be protected as most are not physically strong enough to defend themselves against someone bigger, stronger etc.

 

[Tigermama]

So i've noticed all the posters who don't see the difference between a guy beating on a woman and two guys punching on are younger posters. Scary to think thats the mentality of the younger generation.

Especialy as there's so much information out there about it. In schools in the media etc. Maybe those few haven't been paying attention :crazy

 

[Tigermama]

GNR4LIFE …. So if you got home from work and you found your mrs fooling around with another bloke you wouldn't put one one his chin ??
Yeah righto .....

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I don't do violence so probably not no

Woww ! That would show some restraint. I would honestly struggle to not put him in a hospital bed and I'm not a violent person.

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It takes two to tango Tony…..will you put one on her chin too? Or do you think maybe you should walk out and return when you've cooled off a bit ? As hard as that might be for you to do it would be the best option.

 

[Tigermama]

As per GNR and Hobbo : I'm not a violent person and really try to avoid conflict if truth be known, however if pushed into a situation I may punch on with a guy but I would never do the same with a female, regardless of how "equal" the feminists and GenY's try to make out they are. If that makes me old fashioned and a relic from another era so be it. My two teenaged boys also know better than to hit females. Simple really.

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I told my young bloke when he was 5 that you can't hit girls , but I told him that his sister ( 7 at the time ) that she's fair game lol

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:laughing: That's funny !

 

[AmericanHistoryX]

Im a pacifist myself. I would dump the girlfriend immediately and wish the guy best of luck with her. Then i would move on.

 

[Flippedy]

GNR4LIFE …. So if you got home from work and you found your mrs fooling around with another bloke you wouldn't put one one his chin ??
Yeah righto .....

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I don't do violence so probably not no

Woww ! That would show some restraint. I would honestly struggle to not put him in a hospital bed and I'm not a violent person.

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What's the point of doing that, Tony. If your partner is playing up with another man then there is obviously something wrong with your relationship in the first place, so reacting to the situation with violence wouldn't solve anything - it would only make things worse. Our partners aren't 'possessions' to be fought over, they're people just like us.

 

[Furious1]

Is it ever acceptable to hit a girl? Of course not. It would be interesting to see the reaction from people on here if she went to town on him and was charged with assault though. I think most people would laugh.

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[cktiger]

Im a pacifist myself. I would dump the girlfriend immediately and wish the guy best of luck with her. Then i would move on.

Reminds me of the joke about an old guy who comes home to find his best friend in bed with his wife.
He looks at his friend and says 'Larry, I have to… but you?'

 

[Tony33]

GNR4LIFE …. So if you got home from work and you found your mrs fooling around with another bloke you wouldn't put one one his chin ??
Yeah righto .....

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I don't do violence so probably not no

Woww ! That would show some restraint. I would honestly struggle to not put him in a hospital bed and I'm not a violent person.

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It takes two to tango Tony…..will you put one on her chin too? Or do you think maybe you should walk out and return when you've cooled off a bit ? As hard as that might be for you to do it would be the best option.

I never have and never will hit a girl and i have had my reasons to. The thought of "putting one on her chin" is sooo low TBH. Sorry Tigermamma but if any man has the courage to walk into another man's home and screw his wife/girlfriend then he should also be able to face the consequences if he gets caught.

Men fight men in boxing and UFC everyday, with UFC currently the fastest growing sport on the planet. So two blokes fighting clearly isn't an issue in society; however i think we're all against the coward punches and king hits. IMO sometimes violence is provoked and as much as you'd like to
Disagree, human nature dictates otherwise for most.

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[Tony33]

GNR4LIFE …. So if you got home from work and you found your mrs fooling around with another bloke you wouldn't put one one his chin ??
Yeah righto .....

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I don't do violence so probably not no

Woww ! That would show some restraint. I would honestly struggle to not put him in a hospital bed and I'm not a violent person.

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What's the point of doing that, Tony. If your partner is playing up with another man then there is obviously something wrong with your relationship in the first place, so reacting to the situation with violence wouldn't solve anything - it would only make things worse. Our partners aren't 'possessions' to be fought over, they're people just like us.

It goes against my values, the whole sleeping around and stuff especially if it's happpening under your own roof. Any man who walks into another man's house to fool around with his wife/girlfriend should be man enough to deal with the consequences. Im not saying kill the bloke, but surely you'd be angry enough to throw a punch or two. The girlfriend/wife would be much more at fault, but the only thing you could do there is walk alway.

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[Tigertigertiger]

Can the NRL step in and take away Souths Premiership please :stuck_out_tongue:

 

[AmericanHistoryX]

Im a pacifist myself. I would dump the girlfriend immediately and wish the guy best of luck with her. Then i would move on.

Reminds me of the joke about an old guy who comes home to find his best friend in bed with his wife.
He looks at his friend and says 'Larry, I have to… but you?'

Actually its a Billy Crystal joke from the film Mr. Saturday night and it wasnt Larry but Lenny ー close enough i guess.
Damn good film.

 

[2041]

Love the argument about 'equality' - which basically comes down to 'if you women want to be equal then I should be equally allowed to thump you'. Brilliant. That's one people really want to go to the barricades over, is it?

 

[Flippedy]

I don't do violence so probably not no

Woww ! That would show some restraint. I would honestly struggle to not put him in a hospital bed and I'm not a violent person.

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What's the point of doing that, Tony. If your partner is playing up with another man then there is obviously something wrong with your relationship in the first place, so reacting to the situation with violence wouldn't solve anything - it would only make things worse. Our partners aren't 'possessions' to be fought over, they're people just like us.

It goes against my values, the whole sleeping around and stuff especially if it's happpening under your own roof. Any man who walks into another man's house to fool around with his wife/girlfriend should be man enough to deal with the consequences. Im not saying kill the bloke, but surely you'd be angry enough to throw a punch or two. The girlfriend/wife would be much more at fault, but the only thing you could do there is walk alway.

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It goes against my values too, Tony, but so does getting in a fit of rage and throwing punches at another human being - it doesn't solve anything or make what has happened go away, but each person will handle things differently I guess.

 

[Cultured_Bogan]

I'm not going to engage in the mess that has permeated the last couple of pages. If he has pleaded guilty, then the club should have stood him down until the court process had been completed.

Hitting a woman (unless in genuine self defence,) is lower than a snakes gut.