What age did you start feeling old?

when i realized all my friends started windghing about their ailments.
old age was fun for about 5 years and then i started falling apart
 
40s, where I still am now.

We have a Google device in the kitchen that displays photos and I've just started to notice that I look really young in photos that I used to consider quite recent.

The photos are well known to me but at some point recently I suddenly realised "hey I really don't look like that any more".

In terms of FEElING old, physically, this year. I've had to start doing exercises not to be trim and fit, but to stave off joint pain. And the first time I've had to have the chat with the doctor about my cholesterol.

Also this is the first year I put a significant lump sum into my Super! Had that chat with the financial advisor as well.nold people chats.

Not to mention on of my son's mates recently said to me, resisting my feedback: "yeah but you are old!".
 
I was thinking about it just now after our son had moved my reading glasses, and recalled the first time that I felt old was when I noticed presbyopia as an issue at around 43yo.

Having thought that my vision was perfect, then on a dark rainy winter afternoon I was checking if the side of a door opening was plumb with a 2m level and realised that I couldn't see the bubble properly, but could upon moving away a little.

No doubt there are plenty of others here that have realised something similar and tried to get by without glasses until their arms length was no longer enough to read properly.
 
I was thinking about it just now after our son had moved my reading glasses, and recalled the first time that I felt old was when I noticed presbyopia as an issue at around 43yo.

Having thought that my vision was perfect, then on a dark rainy winter afternoon I was checking if the side of a door opening was plumb with a 2m level and realised that I couldn't see the bubble properly, but could upon moving away a little.

No doubt there are plenty of others here that have realised something similar and tried to get by without glasses until their arms length was no longer enough to read properly.
I’m 46 and in the exact same boat now
Had perfect vision and used to take the kids every 2 years to get their glasses checked and they tested me as well for years I was good.
Told me I needed a light prescription at 44 got them and use them now but haven’t been back even though I really notice it now especially working in the shed. I have to get the light out in shadow areas and phone out to read serial numbers for ordering parts
 
Whilst we say that age is just a number, the reality is that if you don't keep exercising, your body will fall apart much quicker.

Here's an example of an 82 year-old nonna, Idanna Abignente, who discovered pole dancing in her late 60s.

 
I’m 62 and not in great shape due to illness but I only really felt old on Wednesday when I got a call to say a mate had died of heart attack at 52 years old , bloody 52 , that’s not old but it just made me feel like what the hell gee at 62 look out ,
 
I'm in the age is a number camp; I think the mind and the body are the telling factors. I'm 62 and don't feel old (although people tell me that I am).

I have been very fortunate; despite having a few knee clean outs and shoulder jobs done though a long Army career jumping and carrying heavy shit long distances I am in pretty good shape. I think there are more mental scars to deal with than physical ones.

Playing Rugby during the week and League on weekends until I was 42 and then transitioning to touch footy has kept my mobile. I'm still playing touch in the local competiton. It is small country town so it is no big deal, there are some serious teams but I play with a mix of current and ex local rugby players. A couple in their mid 50s, most just retired from playing and a few still playing with the youngest being 18. It is great to be able to mix with such a divers crown socially as much as playing as there are farmers, teachers, stock agents and tradies in the team all with different expereinces and conversations to have over a beer. I think that is what really "keeps you young"; the mind and the environment you put yourself in. Hang with old people you will feel old!

I went to the St Marys Old Boys day a few weeks ago. Compared to most there I was in pretty good shape and there were many worn bodies carrying too much weight, now sitting in the chais their old man sat in when I was a kid. Which was the reason I left and joined the Army at 17 - I didn't want to be sitting in those chairs when I am where I am now. Still a few very fit buggers though. While it was great o catch up and kick on until well in the morning (so the piss fitness is still OK) most had grown into old because they followed their old mans footsteps, played, hung around with the same crowd, socialise together, on the punt together and old together.

Am I slower and find things a little harder, sure, but I really think as long as you keep moving a doing things you don't ned to stop until the body tells you to.

My lovely wife keeps telling me I'm getting too oldfor the shit I do. She may be right but I will slow down when I feel it is time. I'm sure that day is not too far off - but I want to push it as far out as possible. I expect that it is the old adage of use it or lose it is true. I know I am fortunate both health and body wise and I am greatful for that.

I am heading out to do some shuttle runs in a self imposed pre season for touch (starts in a month). Anyone want to join me?
 

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