TO ALL WTForum MEMBERS:
While we are all disappointed, angry, upset, we must remember that we are discussing young men here. Actual people with feelings, who are coping with much more as players and staff, than we could possibly imagine as mere fans.
We need to be mindful of negative impacts on mental health of the players.
I guess, as a human, I am asking you to be kind. To not post on here like a keyboard warrior.
Would you say it to AD's face? Benji's? Luai's?
Would you be happy to have it said to you? Your kids? Grandkids? Partner?
Be kind.
Suze
I would suze . And have done plenty of times in the past and would have my behaviour called out , as well .
If you’re on this forum and you think it’s ok to refuse to play , because a coach has changed your position ….
Regardless of the luai stuff .
Then that mentality is why we will always come last or near last .
Ads reaction should have been . “ i don’t agree Benji can you explain why I’m the one moving and not luai . And when the obvious is said , whilst I don’t agree , I’m not gonna let it affect my performance , but when it doesn’t work I’m gonna be in here screaming I told you so !” ,
The only other acceptable response was “no worries coach let’s rip in and see what hat happens . I’ll shadow Javon all week and let him know as much as I can , but it sux to be moved just letting you know “.
Anything other response is loser talk . It destabilises , it invokes and invites envy and negative thoughts and ultimately it’s toxic to the playing group .
Outside of Benji saying STFu and do what your told there’s really zero justification .
Oh But Luai …… you know what I read when I see that ? His ice cream is bigger than mine … how come she got more soft drink in her glass … he always gets what he wants it’s not fair .
It’s petulant childish bullshit .
I’d say every single word with no problems .. Why ? Because it’s the truth … and if our leaders think like this Ala.. Twal and Seyfarth , well then they should go as well