Drugs, sex, domestic violence: football’s cover-up

Could anyone really think Russell Crow was a decent bloke? Everyone outside of Souffs knew Burgess was a filthy grub. Journos & media loved him though for whatever reason. It'll be interesting to see which sponsors remain involved with these scum bags. And further more, Bennett would absolutely be in the loop. Seeing that smug bugger bow out disgracefully would be brilliant. Pride of the lease indeed.... Lol
 
The victims of infidelity ie wives, husbands, partners often suffer from PTSD as a consequence of the behaviour associated with this type of betrayal. Many consider infidelity to be a form of abuse. So I have every sympathy for Phoebe and the distress she is no doubt experiencing. It can take up to 5 years for a victim of infidelity to recover.

Wait what ? How is cheating on your partner abuse ? It’s morally wrong , and breaks your heart , but it’s hardly abuse. That’s ridiculous. It’s not abuse if your feelings are hurt . The world sux sometimes . People are the worst . But you can’t cry ABUSE because someone does something crappy.

There are behaviours associated with infidelity that are clearly forms of abuse. A cycle of behaviour, the so called rinse, wash, repeat is clearly a form of abuse. This type of behaviour impacts the foundations of a relationship and if you have heard of the term gaslighting this can undermine the victims reality and self worth. Gaslighting is often used by a perpetrator to get away with infidelity with 'you're crazy' or "you are making this up'. In a relationship, when your thoughts and feelings aren't validated, this can be incredibly damaging to your sense of reality and self esteem. Often those involved in this behaviour will blame the victim, often termed blame shifting. We often joke cheaters all operate off the same template and because of this their actions are predictable.. A victim needs to get space to see this behavioural pattern.

Yes I know was Gaslighting is . But to imply that cheating is abuse is massive stretch. The behaviours that can be associated for sure , CAN be. When you say things like “my partner abused me by cheating on me” , you start to build a picture that your some kind of victim , when in reality , your Just someone your partner didn’t care about enough to stay faithful , or , the person is zero idea how to be in a committed relationship. You’re not abused. You’re just clearly low on your partner’s priorities. It’s a bit dramatic and Slightly narcissistic to imply that it’s abuse. When in reality , for most people , it’s just flat out denying and aloofness . This obviously doesn’t apply to gaslighting , controlling abusive behaviours.

We need to chill with stuff like this as a society . Were all turning into soft drama queens, looking for our own little slice of victimisation. The partner is a dirtbag . The end. Leave them , or don’t . If you allow it to go on . Then Look in the mirror .

Not soft at all. Emotional trauma can be as damaging as physical trauma. Emasculation, humiliation, betrayal, loss of agency within a relationship, loss of trust and respect are very real. Relate some of the allegations in this article to their impact on Phoebe Burgess?

No , you said cheating was abuse . I’m saying it’s not . I’m saying cheating is a symptom of abuse. Just like all the other toxic behaviour you mentioned. I’m not being insensitive, and not even talking about Phoebe and people in her really bad situation . I’m saying we as a society have started calling what used to be crappy behaviour as abuse . But It’s not . It’s just crap behaviour. There’s nothing more to it . If your feelings get hurt by someone . Your feelings are hurt . That’s it . If someone offends you . They offended you . If your partner cheated , but wasn’t a toxic piece of crap in general , they just didn’t value your relationship , the. Get rid of them or don’t and live that situation.
When people use words like Abuse , it implies a danger , large degrees of trauma , and usually criminal behaviour. None of that applies to things like cheating by itself . Like I said being a douchebag and cheating is not abuse by itself . It’s a symptom amongst others of a more serious issue .

How do you explain victims of infidelity being diagnosed with PTSD? Abuse can be physical or emotional. How can you neatly quarantine infidelity from its impact on victims? It's not possible

What? So everyone who is cheated on is a victim and every person who cheats an abuser? Just because someone gets PTSD doesn’t mean that it’s abuse. It means that they had psychological trauma because it was traumatic for them. There’s a billion reasons why people cheat , not always is it nefarious or referencing a behaviour from a 1930s movie . Just off the top of my head , there’s addiction problems , women becoming asexual after child birth , sexual kinks , disability , staying together for the kids .
I’m not putting a bow on anything , I’m calling people out for thier bull crap. Everybody wants the violins playing for them , and many times it’s just simply causation . There was an action and therefore a reaction .

Your welcome to your view as this is a forum and I am happy to read your posts.

Imo a drunken one night stand is a one off incident. It's not hopefully repeated or a cycle of behaviour and imo while distressing not what I would describe as abuse. If it is a cycle, then I would constitute that as abusing his/her partner.

A husband (in engineering) and his wife (magazine editor) were having difficulties over an extended period. No matter what he did, his wife was not happy. His wife compared him unfavourably to another male (her manager who was married and both couples were friends). He sought counselling and read self help books to improve himself. His wife even suggested he speak with her manager to improve himself!. The breaking point was when he realised that his wife knew he was suffering but didn't care. In a counselling session, he was challenged as to whether his wife could be having an affair. He employed professional assistance to prove his wife and her manager were cheating at every opportunity. He subsequently told friends and family he had been subject to abuse over a two year period including the added humiliation of consulting his wife's manager about their marriage issues. He had his wife served in the foyer of a hotel she and her lover were at for the weekend. When caught, his wife offered the view that it was just sex and didn't mean anything! Ironically, he divorced his wife as her offence against him was too great. He is now seeing the ex wife of his ex wife's affair partner.

Look man , you’re backtracking away from your initial statement that cheating can be seen as a form of abuse . It was a very general statement of which I argued against, as generally I disagree . But I will say if you’re beating your missus , gaslighting her, controlling her with fear , money etc , That’s 100% abuse . But you can’t have it both ways. When the word cheat is said , it’s said in reference to infidelity. There’s no nuance . It’s used for one night stands , shagging your secretary for long periods , having sex with mate from down the footy club lol . What you perceive , is not in actuality how most people see it .
At no point was I defending burgess , if anything , I was defending a lot of people out there , who just think with their privates at times, and now have to live with their screw up .

I am not backtracking. A repeated cycle of infidelity is abuse. The emotional and psychological injury it causes to victims is very real. Gaslighting, blameshifting, the lies, cheating, lack of integrity, morale values all impact victims.
 
While ever those associated with the NRL and promote it i.e. predominently ex players accept the off field behaviour of their mates and almost laugh it off the "Sam Burgess's" of the game will continue to emerge. I don't believe for a minute that all those
that work with him, socialise with him, werent privy to any of this - and yet it hasn't effected his ability to work in the game. He may not be guilty legally of anything other than being an absolute drop kick but when he has plenty of mates who seem to think that's ok, why would he think there was anything wrong with his behaviour.
 
While ever those associated with the NRL and promote it i.e. predominently ex players accept the off field behaviour of their mates and almost laugh it off the "Sam Burgess's" of the game will continue to emerge. I don't believe for a minute that all those
that work with him, socialise with him, werent privy to any of this - and yet it hasn't effected his ability to work in the game. He may not be guilty legally of anything other than being an absolute drop kick but when he has plenty of mates who seem to think that's ok, why would he think there was anything wrong with his behaviour.

That's the sad part isn't it? He probably doesn't realise how reprehensible his behaviour towards those he supposedly loved/s the most became.
 
I find it hard to believe that South’s doctor didn’t inform someone in management at the club about Sam drug fueled bender.
This will be a big test for Abdo and the new team at NRL headquarters to see if they have the balls to come down hard on their glamour club if found that they knew something and covered it up.
 
I find it hard to believe that South’s doctor didn’t inform someone in management at the club about Sam drug fueled bender.
This will be a big test for Abdo and the new team at NRL headquarters to see if they have the balls to come down hard on their glamour club if found that they knew something and covered it up.

The drug test allegedly conducted in the car park at Souths Juniors seems to confirm management knew. A second doctor was present according to the article.
 
I have no doubt that these stories regarding souths and Burgess will all get quashed in the order to save the club and the reputation of the NRL. The stories getting leaked regarding multiple clubs recently e.g souths current story, Cronulla (systematic drug use and Greg Birds glassing incident), Penrith (their treatment of women in leaked videos and galmour boy Nathan breaking COVID 19 laws yet still so worshipped by the NRL and its commentators makes me sick) and lets not forget Brisbane (gee Siebolds gone quiet since his departure considering the allegations made against him and his little $$ settlement to just leave and go farming up in far north Qld) all lead back to a game and an organisation ran by mugs. Imagine the stuff that hasn't made its way into the media. The game is trash and falsely advertised through flashy ads and it's flufy rounds such as women in league round (which I think is a great idea) etc. Yet the issues leaking out of clubs and the covering up of stories is disgusting, criminal and I honestly believe nothing will change. It's just a game played by athletes who are not God's, warriors or super humans like the games promoters would have you believe.
 
The victims of infidelity ie wives, husbands, partners often suffer from PTSD as a consequence of the behaviour associated with this type of betrayal. Many consider infidelity to be a form of abuse. So I have every sympathy for Phoebe and the distress she is no doubt experiencing. It can take up to 5 years for a victim of infidelity to recover.

Wait what ? How is cheating on your partner abuse ? It’s morally wrong , and breaks your heart , but it’s hardly abuse. That’s ridiculous. It’s not abuse if your feelings are hurt . The world sux sometimes . People are the worst . But you can’t cry ABUSE because someone does something crappy.

There are behaviours associated with infidelity that are clearly forms of abuse. A cycle of behaviour, the so called rinse, wash, repeat is clearly a form of abuse. This type of behaviour impacts the foundations of a relationship and if you have heard of the term gaslighting this can undermine the victims reality and self worth. Gaslighting is often used by a perpetrator to get away with infidelity with 'you're crazy' or "you are making this up'. In a relationship, when your thoughts and feelings aren't validated, this can be incredibly damaging to your sense of reality and self esteem. Often those involved in this behaviour will blame the victim, often termed blame shifting. We often joke cheaters all operate off the same template and because of this their actions are predictable.. A victim needs to get space to see this behavioural pattern.

Yes I know was Gaslighting is . But to imply that cheating is abuse is massive stretch. The behaviours that can be associated for sure , CAN be. When you say things like “my partner abused me by cheating on me” , you start to build a picture that your some kind of victim , when in reality , your Just someone your partner didn’t care about enough to stay faithful , or , the person is zero idea how to be in a committed relationship. You’re not abused. You’re just clearly low on your partner’s priorities. It’s a bit dramatic and Slightly narcissistic to imply that it’s abuse. When in reality , for most people , it’s just flat out denying and aloofness . This obviously doesn’t apply to gaslighting , controlling abusive behaviours.

We need to chill with stuff like this as a society . Were all turning into soft drama queens, looking for our own little slice of victimisation. The partner is a dirtbag . The end. Leave them , or don’t . If you allow it to go on . Then Look in the mirror .

Not soft at all. Emotional trauma can be as damaging as physical trauma. Emasculation, humiliation, betrayal, loss of agency within a relationship, loss of trust and respect are very real. Relate some of the allegations in this article to their impact on Phoebe Burgess?

No , you said cheating was abuse . I’m saying it’s not . I’m saying cheating is a symptom of abuse. Just like all the other toxic behaviour you mentioned. I’m not being insensitive, and not even talking about Phoebe and people in her really bad situation . I’m saying we as a society have started calling what used to be crappy behaviour as abuse . But It’s not . It’s just crap behaviour. There’s nothing more to it . If your feelings get hurt by someone . Your feelings are hurt . That’s it . If someone offends you . They offended you . If your partner cheated , but wasn’t a toxic piece of crap in general , they just didn’t value your relationship , the. Get rid of them or don’t and live that situation.
When people use words like Abuse , it implies a danger , large degrees of trauma , and usually criminal behaviour. None of that applies to things like cheating by itself . Like I said being a douchebag and cheating is not abuse by itself . It’s a symptom amongst others of a more serious issue .

How do you explain victims of infidelity being diagnosed with PTSD? Abuse can be physical or emotional. How can you neatly quarantine infidelity from its impact on victims? It's not possible

What? So everyone who is cheated on is a victim and every person who cheats an abuser? Just because someone gets PTSD doesn’t mean that it’s abuse. It means that they had psychological trauma because it was traumatic for them. There’s a billion reasons why people cheat , not always is it nefarious or referencing a behaviour from a 1930s movie . Just off the top of my head , there’s addiction problems , women becoming asexual after child birth , sexual kinks , disability , staying together for the kids .
I’m not putting a bow on anything , I’m calling people out for thier bull crap. Everybody wants the violins playing for them , and many times it’s just simply causation . There was an action and therefore a reaction .

Your welcome to your view as this is a forum and I am happy to read your posts.

Imo a drunken one night stand is a one off incident. It's not hopefully repeated or a cycle of behaviour and imo while distressing not what I would describe as abuse. If it is a cycle, then I would constitute that as abusing his/her partner.

A husband (in engineering) and his wife (magazine editor) were having difficulties over an extended period. No matter what he did, his wife was not happy. His wife compared him unfavourably to another male (her manager who was married and both couples were friends). He sought counselling and read self help books to improve himself. His wife even suggested he speak with her manager to improve himself!. The breaking point was when he realised that his wife knew he was suffering but didn't care. In a counselling session, he was challenged as to whether his wife could be having an affair. He employed professional assistance to prove his wife and her manager were cheating at every opportunity. He subsequently told friends and family he had been subject to abuse over a two year period including the added humiliation of consulting his wife's manager about their marriage issues. He had his wife served in the foyer of a hotel she and her lover were at for the weekend. When caught, his wife offered the view that it was just sex and didn't mean anything! Ironically, he divorced his wife as her offence against him was too great. He is now seeing the ex wife of his ex wife's affair partner.

Look man , you’re backtracking away from your initial statement that cheating can be seen as a form of abuse . It was a very general statement of which I argued against, as generally I disagree . But I will say if you’re beating your missus , gaslighting her, controlling her with fear , money etc , That’s 100% abuse . But you can’t have it both ways. When the word cheat is said , it’s said in reference to infidelity. There’s no nuance . It’s used for one night stands , shagging your secretary for long periods , having sex with mate from down the footy club lol . What you perceive , is not in actuality how most people see it .
At no point was I defending burgess , if anything , I was defending a lot of people out there , who just think with their privates at times, and now have to live with their screw up .

I am not backtracking. A repeated cycle of infidelity is abuse. The emotional and psychological injury it causes to victims is very real. Gaslighting, blameshifting, the lies, cheating, lack of integrity, morale values all impact victims.

Ok . I think we are lost in translation . Looks like we might be saying the same thing. Either way , Burgess is the kind of dude your family warned your sisters about .
Unfortunately , when dead heads like this guy emerge , it really reinforces all the negative stereotypes about footy players , that guys like Chris Lawrence try and disprove .
 
I find it hard to believe that South’s doctor didn’t inform someone in management at the club about Sam drug fueled bender.
This will be a big test for Abdo and the new team at NRL headquarters to see if they have the balls to come down hard on their glamour club if found that they knew something and covered it up.

The drug test allegedly conducted in the car park at Souths Juniors seems to confirm management knew. A second doctor was present according to the article.

So how did he navigate the ASADA test crew , bearing in mind this was just after the time of , the ASADA crew admitting defeat with thier sharks , bombers etc Peptides scandal. They would have been on the warpath for a few years you’d think.
 
I have no doubt that these stories regarding souths and Burgess will all get quashed in the order to save the club and the reputation of the NRL.

I think it has gone too far for that.

Souths attempted to squash the story, but too many people knew and have given evidence of Souths wrongdoings.

The story will take on a life of its own. The genie is out of the bottle and neither Souths or the NRL will be able to put it back in.

I believe that Souths in general and a number of their officials are heading for big trouble.
 
[**Misguided star waited at home of rival to exact revenge**](https://www.theaustralian.com.au/sport/nrl/misguided-star-sam-burgess-waited-at-home-of-rival-billy-smith-to-exact-revenge/news-story/34cdd03434e42d1f43dbb45af16747c7)

*Rugby league superstar Sam Burgess waited outside the home of a rival footballer who he blamed for exposing a sex scandal and discussed wanting to assault him, boasting: ‘I will get him when I retire.’*

By SHARRI MARKSON and JESSICA HALLORAN and CLAIRE HARVEY

From NRL, October 2, 2020
9 MINUTE READ

Rugby league superstar Sam Burgess waited outside the home of a rival footballer who he blamed for exposing a sex scandal and discussed wanting to assault him, boasting: “I will get him when I retire.”

The Weekend Australian can reveal Burgess claimed he had sat outside the home of young Roosters player Billy Smith for an hour, waiting for him to emerge, as ­revenge for the misguided belief he exposed a sexting scandal to the media in yet another example of the destructive world of the South Sydney superstar, first exposed by The Australian on Friday.

Revelations that South Sydney covered up Burgess’s alleged drug use, domestic violence and harassment has now led to him standing down from his Fox Sports role and assistant coaching job at the Rabbitohs.

NSW police and the NRL have also launched separate investigations into the allegations published by The Australian relating to Burgess and South Sydney, which include that Burgess physically assaulted his wife, Phoebe, when she was eight months pregnant and that club doctor, Andrew McDonald, injected him with liquid tranquilliser during a drug-­fuelled bender but had prescribed the medication in another name.

South Sydney on Friday had a three-hour board meeting about The Australian’s report. The club released a statement: “The allegations in today’s The Australian are very concerning and the club is treating them with the utmost seriousness.” South Sydney said it welcomed the NRL Integrity Unit’s investigation into the club and Burgess standing down from his role.

Burgess and McDonald have declined to comment.

In further revelations, Burgess allegedly threatened Smith after a game in the tunnel and subsequently discussed wanting to physically assault him, saying 10 years ago he would have “knocked him out cold”.

Burgess made the remarks in text messages sent the day after he pulled Smith’s hair during a game, on September 5, 2019. Earlier this year, Phoebe Burgess provided NSW police with the text messages in relation to intimidation charges police had laid against Burgess after an altercation with her father, Mitch Hooke.

“I told him after the game I know he was involved and I will get him when I retire. He was a scared little boy,” Burgess texted his then wife about Smith at 3.59pm on September 6, 2019.

“To be fair I was happy I didn’t do any more ha. In my mind I wanted to stand a n (sic) his head.”

Burgess continued to speak about what had happened on the field with Smith: “He squealed so I twisted and pulled. More then (sic) he whimpered like a little Pussy. Such a soft f..k.”

Phoebe Burgess texted back: “you’re twisted sometimes.”

And Burgess replied: “Arghh it frustrates me. 10 years ago I would have knocked him out cold.”

Phoebe Burgess replied: “You’re a better example to your son this way. So I’m proud you held back — even slightly.” Burgess texted back: “Slightly — understatement” and said: “You know I’ve been to his house before and parked outside for an hour just wishing I would see him.”

Phoebe replied: “Yes. I know.”

Burgess texted back: “Dats Dewsbury Sam” and said “Haha dad would have waited until we did see him.”

Roosters sources told The Weekend Australian Burgess had approached Smith with an expletive-filled tirade in the tunnel after the September 5 game against the Roosters, saying he would “get him”. The hair-pulling incident was captured in dramatic footage, with the matter going to the ­judiciary and leading to a one-week ban for Burgess.

Burgess felt it was too harsh.

“In the context of the game, there were four or five blokes knocked out, 50 stitches put into people’s heads after a game,’’ Burgess said of the punishment. “Then someone sits in front of the computer on Friday and that’s what they pick up?

“It says it all. I’m disappointed.”

**Spark for hate**

The sexting scandal of 2018 — where a woman complained to Souths that Burgess had exposed himself to her in a video call — was the genesis of Burgess’ hatred of Smith. Smith had a connection to the woman, who lodged a complaint to the Rabbitohs.

The NRL Integrity Unit investigated Burgess and exonerated him of one of the many scandals that ultimately contributed to his destructive lifestyle.

But NRL investigators examining the complaint entertained Burgess’s allegations that Smith may have been behind the media leak. He was called into the NRL Integrity Unit for an interrogation, with investigators even examining his mobile phone.

The meeting took place in the Roosters’ office and Smith was accompanied by his father, along with the all-powerful Roosters boss Nick Politis, in a show of support. In the meeting, Smith told the NRL Integrity Unit boss Karyn Murphy of his innocence.

“Here’s my phone, take it … if you think I’ve done something,” Smith said in the meeting.

As one highly ranked Roosters club man observed; “It was a set-up to deflect away from his (Burgess’s) behaviour … and he walked away looking lilywhite in the end.”

While Smith was entirely exonerated of any involvement in the leaking of the scandal, Burgess still appeared to blame him, holding onto his resentment for a full year.

The events that sparked the sexting scandal began on May 26, 2018, when Burgess was partying with his teammates in Auckland, New Zealand, after beating the Warriors 30 to 10 at Mount Smart stadium. A 23-year old Sydney student and wellness advocate, whom The Weekend Australian has chosen not to name, sent Burgess a message over Instagram.

According to her account to the club later, she was not looking for attention but was alerting him to a fake account of his that had been set up. The correspondence led to a group video call, with several players flashing their buttocks at her. After the group call ended, Burgess had another personal call with the woman from his hotel bed. During this call, the woman took a screenshot of an image of the married Burgess, the father-of-one with another on the way, exposing his penis.

She would later say she felt violated and disgusted by the online interaction. She lodged a written complaint with South Sydney about Burgess’s behaviour.

The club’s football operations manager, Brock Schafer, received the email on June 1, with the assurance it would be treated seriously.

Subsequent follow-up emails sent by the young woman were then directed to a junk folder as the email address was not recognised and the IT system tagged them as spam. When her complaint had not been addressed four months later, she contacted The Daily Telegraph about the club’s cover-up of the sexual harassment, with the story running on the front page on September 14.

The newspaper named Burgess as the player at the centre of the scandal a day later.

Burgess had in early September signed a multi-million-dollar deal with the Rabbitohs until 2023.

The scandal rocked the Rabbitohs on the eve of their preliminary final and damaged Burgess’s reputation as a devoted family man.

The club and the NRL launched a joint “independent” investigation into the episode, run by a panel including Souths CEO, Blake Solly and chair Nick Pappas.

Behind the scenes, the Burgess PR machine, led by lawyer Chris Murphy, appeared confident the NRL would not pursue Burgess over the matter. In documents obtained by The Australian dated September 20, 2018, Mr Murphy assures the Burgess family the scandal will soon go away, saying his interpretation was that there would be no adverse finding.

Mr Murphy describes the woman’s behaviour as “slutty honey­potting” and claims Burgess was “hunted” by fans.

“It is obvious the NRL is letting it die this way,” he said.

“The woman won’t speak to them and somehow I think they are having trouble tracking down the Scots boys, Smith … whoever.

“(Todd) Greenberg was very firm about not saying anything adverse about anyone and I read that as his way of softening up for saying they can’t resolve anything adverse on what they have ie the interviewed footballers’ version of her slutty honeypotting. These camp following twisted fans are a real nuisance. I get them with all celebrities and Sam as a sportsman is hunted just the same way.”

**Revelation of the affair**

The Roosters galvanised internally in the wake of the scandal, despite Burgess and Souths trying and failing to draw them into the sexting saga. The Rabbitohs lost the preliminary final on September 22 against the Roosters.

Phoebe Burgess put on a brave face to support her husband by attending that crucial preliminary final, just a day after Burgess had been cleared of wrongdoing by the NRL. Accompanied by her parents and daughter Poppy, Mrs Burgess was invited to sit in Russell Crowe’s box, alongside Chris Murphy and celebrity accountant Anthony Bell, a member of the Souths board.

Witnesses recalled observing a heavily pregnant Phoebe being heckled by crowd members, saying things like: “Do you want to FaceTime Mrs Burgess?”

After the defeat, Sam Burgess didn’t come home for two days.

With the pressure of the sexting scandal weighing on her, Phoebe was admitted to North Shore Private Hospital on September 23, 28 weeks pregnant, when her baby appeared to stop moving.

Burgess was still out partying. Phoebe Burgess texted Crowe as to her husband’s whereabouts on September 24.

Phoebe Burgess was still reeling from the public humiliation of her husband’s involvement in the sexting scandal, and her pregnancy scare, when a far more devastating revelation emerged.

On September 27, just four days after she was admitted to hospital, Phoebe Burgess learnt her husband had engaged in an extramarital affair with a Melbourne woman.

Chris Murphy rang Burgess to say Herald Sun journalist Stephen Drill had interviewed the woman and planned to publish a story that would divulge the details of their affair that had begun around November, 2017.

Burgess was left with no option but to confess to his wife at their family home that he had had a sexual affair while in Melbourne captaining England in the Rugby League World Cup.

All the while, Phoebe was solo-parenting their eight-month old daughter, Poppy, and flying around the country with her parents to support Burgess’s World Cup campaign. Apologising through tears, Burgess described the affair to her as “pure filth” and reiterated how much he loved her and their family.

A close friend recalled how a distraught Phoebe battled to fight back tears because Poppy was in the room: “She was hyperventilating. She didn’t want her daughter to see her breakdown. She was lying on the bed wailing. It broke her. She was in pain.”

Again, the Rabbitohs machine swung into action.

The following day, September 28, Crowe organised a plane to fly Burgess, Phoebe and Poppy from Bankstown Airport to his farm in Nana Glen in northern NSW, in an attempt to help Burgess keep his family together.

A friend of Burgess’s said Crowe was supportive of Phoebe and tried to help Burgess understand what he stood to lose.

Burgess made the decision not to take up playing opportunities for the off-season in England, although he publicly blamed a shoulder injury on the decision.

Saving his marriage and dealing with the multiple crises in his private life was a large part of the reason. The story about Burgess’ infidelity never made it to print and the affair remained a secret to all but those closest to Phoebe and Sam.

It was yet another buried scandal, with Burgess managing to maintain the outward appearance that his life was in order.
 
It just get worse. I bet there is more to come. What the hell is wrong with this guy? There is a suggestion that perhaps his numerous concussions has led to CTE and he has lost his mind.

Another implication from the above article: he lied about a shoulder injury to excuse himself from international duties. Doesn't that sound familiar?
 
[**Burgess gambled $25,000 a week**](https://www.theaustralian.com.au/sport/nrl/sam-burgess-gambled-25000-a-week/news-story/abe9efe15c1d6755186b6ad6b0dfb421)

*Rugby league star Sam Burgess paid up to $25,000 a week into betting apps in a gambling habit that equated to $1m a year.*

From NRL, October 2, 2020
2 MINUTE READ

Rugby league star Sam Burgess paid up to $25,000 a week into betting apps in a gambling habit that equated to $1m a year.

At the height of his playing prowess in 2017, the South Sydney Rabbitohs star was paying up to $70,000 a day into betting ­accounts including Sportsbet, Neds, TAB, Crownbet, Beteasy, Bet365 and William Hill.

Burgess had plenty of wins, with credits exceeding $900,000 during the same one-year period. In a three-day period in June 2017 he paid $66,000 into betting ­accounts and recouped $45,000.

Burgess, 31, yesterday stood down from his roles as a Souths ­development coach and FoxSports commentator after explosive revelations in The Australian about a Souths cover-up of alleged drug use and domestic violence.

Burgess has denied any wrongdoing.

Before the revelations, Burgess was building a reputation as a mentor for up-and-coming Souths players and was being championed by veteran coach Wayne Bennett for a future coaching career.

Burgess is a co-owner of several racehorses and is known in football circles as a punter who sometimes retreats to casino gaming floors to find anonymity.

The Australian’s investigation has revealed that while Burgess plunged thousands of dollars on horses and other gaming ventures, his former wife Phoebe Burgess claims in a statement to police he exercised financial control over her.

In her statement to police Phoebe Burgess revealed Burgess required her to sign a non-disclosure agreement about his gambling.

In the statement, provided as part of an apprehended violence order against Burgess taken by police for the protection of his ­father-in-law Mitch Hooke, Phoebe Burgess wrote her spending on the family started to be more closely monitored and criticised as his gambling picked up.

“Whenever we discussed money, I felt tension. Sam would become enraged easily,” she wrote.

“He would snap if I suggested we go through our accounts and my own expenditure and create a budget as any and all financial issues were consistently directed toward me, my spending, my shopping, my overly expensive and greedy, spoilt tastes.”

On social media Phoebe Burgess has been trolled by strangers accusing her of being a “gold-digger”.

But social media experts have estimated her likely income as over $500,000 a year, with several high-profile brand ambassadorships and a large Instagram following.

She wrote in the statement to police she could not understand where their money was going.

“Due to the fact Sam would not share a portion of his income with myself or the family, I could not see where half of it was going,” Mrs Burgess wrote.
 
This is getting bigger than Ben Hurr. Every media outlet is publishing more dirt on big Sam. Souths Have come out quickly and denied any knowledge or involvement, but they are not rushing to the side of big Sam.

This will drag on and on, but I get the feeling Souths will come okay but big Sam might be the fall guy
 
As disgraceful as all this is, I can't say I'm surprised. Burgess comes across as an archetypical low-life devoid of normal levels of decency. Souths as a club, and more extraordinarily the club doctor, have demonstrated just how pathetically self-interested they are by putting the welfare of people (including Burgess himself) below the reputation of "The pride of the league".

If the allegations are correct - and it seems there's evidence to suggest they are, I hope justice is done and Burgess is charged appropriately. Souths should be penalised for both a staggering cover-up and essentially condoning DV and drug use. The club Dr, well, he should be de-registered - what he knowingly did was career suicide. Russell Crowe should be banned from involvement in the game.

This game certainly has a dark side and there's probably a lot more of this sort of thing that never sees the light of day.
 
what an absolute gronk. hope he's wiped out of the game forever.

more importantly I hope this is the beginning of the NRL shedding light on domestic violence and the mistreatment of women by both players and officials. it has gone on for far too long, and with women being players, members and stakeholders of the great game, if we continue to alienate them by sweeping scandals like this under the rug, the game will not survive.
 

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