cochise
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@Abraham said in [Thread closed?](/post/1070306) said:@cochise Thanks mate.
Yeah its a tough one. As a Catholic myself its obviously tragic to say the least what some within the Church have done.
But at the same time, we don't worship 'the church' or its priests, so i couldn't see myself moving away from faith because of what some evil people have done. I also keep in mind the vast majority of priests are good men who have devoted their entire lives to serving others.
I honestly don't know any couples who have your dynamics, with one being a believer and one not ... i keep getting images of that Simpsons episode where Homer stops going to church :joy:
My problem with the Catholic church is its refusal to deal with those evil people, to own it's mistakes and take steps to rectify what has happened. The church itself has been too heavily involved in this behaviour.
It is an interesting dynamic but not really different to any other differences people may have in a relationship, you make compromises, I still attend church with my wife and daughter for significant parts of the year. Attend things like Christmas and Easter masses for example as my wife has a desire to bring my daughter up religious. I stopped short of my daughter attend a Catholic school though as I do not believe the Catholic church to have her best interests at heart as has been shown recently.