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Being happy with what you have or just being happy?
I'm interested in narcissism, and does anyone on WTF live with a narcissist?
If so, how do you cope?
Apparently, a narcissistic person can make you 'feel like dancing' one minute, then the next you wanna poke your eyes out with a hot poker.
I 'know' that doesn't apply to any WTF members or Mods, as they just make yuh 'feel like dancin' 👍 😊 even though we are all having such a 💩'y season.
My daughter's ex is a full on narcissist. OMG! The things he did and put her through. I'm not a violent person (footy aside 🤭) but I would line him up with my bullbar and reverse back to make sure I didn't miss. What he's put our whole family through ... but especially my girl and her son 🤬🤬🤬 10 years of it!!
 
My daughter's ex is a full on narcissist. OMG! The things he did and put her through. I'm not a violent person (footy aside 🤭) but I would line him up with my bullbar and reverse back to make sure I didn't miss. What he's put our whole family through ... but especially my girl and her son 🤬🤬🤬 10 years of it!!

Sad to hear that Suzie,unfortunately there are some real shit people on this planet and narcissist's are usually in the worst category
 

My daughter's ex is a full on narcissist. OMG! The things he did and put her through. I'm not a violent person (footy aside 🤭) but I would line him up with my bullbar and reverse back to make sure I didn't miss. What he's put our whole family through ... but especially my girl and her son 🤬🤬🤬 10 years of it!!

I recently started on antidepressants and im only 21 , I can’t figure out why I feel the way I do and im scared im going to throw my life away because I can’t shake my depression or unmotivation off. I just saw this thread and I have a hard time asking for help
Thank you for expressing this @Suzie-Q and the sadness it has caused to You and Your Girl and her son.
Really really great that she was able to get away from him for her sake, her sons and for you as well.

Oh, by the way...judging by your photo in Your Shine A Light post, You look much to Young to be a Grandmother .
 
Thank you for expressing this @Suzie-Q and the sadness it has caused to You and Your Girl and her son.
Really really great that she was able to get away from him for her sake, her sons and for you as well.

Oh, by the way...judging by your photo in Your Walk 4 Life post, You look much to Young to be a Grandmother .
Thank you ❤️
That photo is a year old lol
And it's very nice of you to say so, but we were both fairly young mums (22, 20) and my grandson turns 13 next week 😀
 
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Sad to hear that Suzie,unfortunately there are some real shit people on this planet and narcissist's are usually in the worst category
Yep, absolutely jadtiger.
I feel so sad for the people that have been infected by a narcissist, but I also feel sad for the narcissist.
I feel that they wouldn't have chosen to be a narcissist.
It's either a chromosome gone wrong at birth, or they have had it forced on them by their parents bad upbringing.
I feel exactly the same about people that commit murder and other horrible crimes just as much as the ones who have been murdered.
On so many occasions you hear about the sad and terrible childhood so many of the killers etc. have had which must imprint a terrible outlook on life and their fellow man.
 
I'm not sure what you mean tiger_one.
Are you saying there are people out there that will try to break us mentally and then use us like the way a narcissist will do to their partner?
Champion @BZN, I was thinking that we each have our own individual and very unique inner strengths, and sometimes we mightn't even know how wonderful/capable/strong we each are, until put under the pump, then bringing a positive response in such a way that we actually surprise ourselves. 💪
 
Being happy with what you have or just being happy?
I'm interested in narcissism, and does anyone on WTF live with a narcissist?
If so, how do you cope?
Apparently, a narcissistic person can make you 'feel like dancing' one minute, then the next you wanna poke your eyes out with a hot poker.
I 'know' that doesn't apply to any WTF members or Mods, as they just make yuh 'feel like dancin' 👍 😊 even though we are all having such a 💩'y season.

We all have a little narcissism in us.
 
Does being secretly pissed off count as a mental health problem.
Three years ago we bought our dream house . Big house, pool , spa , many bathrooms all the bells and whistles. Turns out a big house and a big yard is a lot of maintenance and I'm not one to pay a stranger to come to my house to clean or mow.
So my wife decided and I went along with it to keep the peace, to sell up and buy a townhome. It's big enough and a nice place but it feels like tomorrow I start the final phase of life. In all honesty I would rather have remained here but keeping my wife happy is more important to me.
The worst bit is I had to sell off my pinball machines.
All in all I'm a bit miserable about it, but this is just a bit of pissing into the wind about a first world problem.
Suck it up and move on Packer!
G'day @Todd Packer... I remember you telling us about your pinball machines 2 or 3 years ago, and now you are giving them up to keep your wife happy...WOW just WOW TP.

Thank you ❤️
That photo is a year old lol
And it's very nice of you to say so, but we were both fairly young mums (22, 20) and my grandson turns 13 next week 😀
 
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When I was at school kids with issues such as these were just called uncontrollable

My stepsons just started high school and they seem to do a lot of work on mental health these days
My wife of 38 years was classified as an uncontrollable child all those years ago.
I can plainly see she needs psych counselling and the appropriate meds, but every time I bring the subject up, she doesn't want to know, which makes life pretty damn difficult to say the least.
 
Speaking of mental health, and trying to look after it, I've taken a big chunk of LSL. I'm off work until 22 July. This week, I'm fulfilling my role on the Canowindra International Balloon Challenge committee and have been up at 4.30am chasing balloons! Taking photos - which I really love doing. I hope you like the one I've shared. I call it the Tigers balloon 🤭
I'm exercising - 5km 5/7 days.
Losing weight - down 9kg since January.
Growing lots of plants and trees from seeds to put in our paddocks (anyone want a jacaranda seedling??! Not even joking!)
I'm cooking more, and drinking less - coke, wine, spirits
Spending time with friends and family, getting to the footy, playing with my dogs and sheep
Sleeping better 😌 😴
Hoping to feel 100% better when I get back to work, but not even thinking about that, yet!

❤️
9 kilos since January, WOW Suzie-Q that is amazing, well done 👍 😀 😀.
Have you reached your goal weight yet?
 
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Being happy with what you have or just being happy?
I'm interested in narcissism, and does anyone on WTF live with a narcissist?
If so, how do you cope?
Apparently, a narcissistic person can make you 'feel like dancing' one minute, then the next you wanna poke your eyes out with a hot poker.
I 'know' that doesn't apply to any WTF members or Mods, as they just make yuh 'feel like dancin' 👍 😊 even though we are all having such a 💩'y season.
Narcissism and psychopathy have always been an unspoken hallmark of senior business and political "leaders" because ethics and self-awareness are considered a professional liability when the pragmatic focus is solely on balance sheets or populist votes...

The Easton-Ellis book AMERICAN PSYCHO is a brilliant satire of that borderline-psychotic corporate culture in 80s New York - with entire chapters of the protagonist Patrick Bateman bitterly fixating on the relative quality of colleague's business cards - or admiring his own physique at the gym - then next chapter casually mutilating another escort in his high-end Manhattan apartment...

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But narcissism and sociopathy have become "cool" and somehow a characteristic that is now applauded in mainstream society!

Leading to an epidemic of generational narcissistic and sociopathic incels and other embittered - delusional - self-victims who suck the life out of everyone who are unfortunate enough to cross their paths!
 
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Speaking of mental health, and trying to look after it, I've taken a big chunk of LSL. I'm off work until 22 July. This week, I'm fulfilling my role on the Canowindra International Balloon Challenge committee and have been up at 4.30am chasing balloons! Taking photos - which I really love doing. I hope you like the one I've shared. I call it the Tigers balloon 🤭
I'm exercising - 5km 5/7 days.
Losing weight - down 9kg since January.
Growing lots of plants and trees from seeds to put in our paddocks (anyone want a jacaranda seedling??! Not even joking!)
I'm cooking more, and drinking less - coke, wine, spirits
Spending time with friends and family, getting to the footy, playing with my dogs and sheep
Sleeping better 😌 😴
Hoping to feel 100% better when I get back to work, but not even thinking about that, yet!

❤️
Inspiring!

Well done!
 
9 kilos since January, WOW Suzie-Q that is amazing, well done 👍 😀 😀.
Have you reached your goal eight yet?
Nah. LSL turned into carer's leave, and I've only just started walking again. I'm down another kg, which us better than going up 😁 I've just started medication, because it's got to the point where I can acknowledge that I just can't manage it on my own. And I don't want the surgery. But, hopefully, I'll keep going and getting healthier and healthier 🥰
 
Narcissism and psychopathy have always been an unspoken hallmark of senior business and political "leaders" because ethics and self-awareness are considered a professional liability when the pragmatic focus is solely on balance sheets or populist votes...

The Easton-Ellis book AMERICAN PSYCHO is a brilliant satire of that borderline-psychotic corporate culture in 80s New York - with entire chapters of the protagonist Patrick Bateman bitterly fixating on the relative quality of colleague's business cards - or admiring his own physique at the gym - then next chapter casually mutilating another escort in his high-end Manhattan apartment...

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But narcissism and sociopathy have become "cool" and somehow a characteristic that is now applauded in mainstream society!

Leading to an epidemic of generational narcissistic and sociopathic incels and other embittered - delusional - self-victims who suck the life out of everyone who are unfortunate enough to cross their paths!
Thaks for your really well worded reply Snidest 0.
Seems to me from what you have said is "this fine old world keeps spinning around" [words courtesy of Frank Sinatra] but it's gunna get 💩'er and 💩'er day by day, so I'm glad I'm getting closer to the edge of the world day by day.
 
Nah. LSL turned into carer's leave, and I've only just started walking again. I'm down another kg, which us better than going up 😁 I've just started medication, because it's got to the point where I can acknowledge that I just can't manage it on my own. And I don't want the surgery. But, hopefully, I'll keep going and getting healthier and healthier 🥰

Nah. LSL turned into carer's leave, and I've only just started walking again. I'm down another kg, which us better than going up 😁 I've just started medication, because it's got to the point where I can acknowledge that I just can't manage it on my own. And I don't want the surgery. But, hopefully, I'll keep going and getting healthier and healthier 🥰
G'day Suzie-Q
Bugger, probably not the sort of LSL you needed, but one which I feel you would have willingly taken on, because I reckon You Are a Very Caring and Giving person, and You like a Challenge.
You wouldn't have taken on the tasks at the Canowindra International Balloon Challenge or the 9km walk charity otherwise.
And last but not least, You accepted the challenge along with @Lauren and a few ugly blokes 😉 to keep WTF at a High standard. But not only that, You and the current Team have Exceeded that High standard and created a forum that is Imo By Far the Best since I joined in 2019.
So, a Great Big Thank You 👍👍👍 to You and the Team.

Now Suzie-Q, I reckon it's time for You to give to Yourself.
You have to accept Your latest Challenge which I know... 'You Can Do'.
And I know, You Can do it without resorting to surgery, as surgery very often is not a long-time fix.
It aint easy, but you already know that don't you Suzie-Q.

When I was about 35 yoa I was overweight and wearing large size clothes.
I decided I had to lose weight, so I started walking then jogging, did the 5BX exercise program, played squash and a bit of tennis. I've forgotten how long it took but I was eventually able to fit into small men's size clothes for a while at least, but I felt amazing.
Over the past 30+ years I have had a lot of stress in my life and found the only way I could handle it was thru JUNK food and that has resulted in me now having to wear XXL size clothes and really need to lose about 15 kgs.

I had a minor melt down just recently which could have turned into a major meltdown.
After seeing a psychiatrist at my local hosp. I was given a script for a medication called "Olanzapine" [2.5 mg]. It won't solve the problem that is causing my stress, but it definitely helps a lot to be able to handle the stress. The only downside to Olanzapine is I get a bit of brain fog sometimes, but I feel the benefit is worth it.

Now, the reason I am saying this is the fact I am not as stressed now is .......I don't have anywhere near the desire to eat cakes etc. as I used to have 😊......., or if I do feel I want some junk food, I can easily overcome that desire.
Dieting must be a change in your eating pattern that you can comfortably sustain for the rest of your life, as they say crash diets generally don't last once you reach your goal weight.

But, "that's life as all the people say, you're flyin high in April shot down in May, but I KNOW I'm gonna change that tune when I'm back on top back on top in June that's life, I've been up and down and nearly out but I know one thing, each time I find myself flat on my face I just pick myself up and get back in the race as that's life. [words from Frank Sinatra's song That's Life]

Go get em' Suzie-Q 😍
You got this 💯👍💯 and You will be healthier and healthier.




Nah. LSL turned into carer's leave, and I've only just started walking again. I'm down another kg, which us better than going up 😁 I've just started medication, because it's got to the point where I can acknowledge that I just can't manage it on my own. And I don't want the surgery. But, hopefully, I'll keep going and getting healthier and healthier 🥰
 

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