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The victims of infidelity ie wives, husbands, partners often suffer from PTSD as a consequence of the behaviour associated with this type of betrayal. Many consider infidelity to be a form of abuse. So I have every sympathy for Phoebe and the distress she is no doubt experiencing. It can take up to 5 years for a victim of infidelity to recover.
Come on man . Infidelity is not abuse . Whilst it sux , that someone has to hurt like that , you should be allowed to leave someone and fall in love with whoever you want . If you screw around get a disease than give it to your partner that’s definitely abuse , but seriously thats ridiculous.
I believe the issue is you are still with your wife/husband/partner but are seeing someone behind their back. Cake eating at its finest.
Yeah that's low saying that. You can't accuse some person I presume you've never met of cheating on their partner. Way out of line there.
Yea I was not happy with what he said . Pretty low to just accuse someone of being a dog , with no evidence , other than general chatter on a forum . Not that it needs to be said , But for the record , I’m a faithful loving father/husband , who doesn’t have the time or energy to manage 2 women , or desire. I don’t understand how you could want to deal with the headaches and secrecy, plus I love my wife , she’s a good egg .
Whatever , he knows what I think . It is what it is .
Geez you both took what paws was saying completely wrong there! It wasn’t meant to be a personal attack. Think about it for a minute - how on earth would he even know that about you and then be silly enough to post it on a public forum?
That said, perhaps the grammar could’ve been better - Insert the word “if” before “you are still with your wife/husband/partner, but are seeing someone behind their back, *then* it’s cake eating at its finest”. Changes the whole context of the sentence.
Besides all that, if he was having a personal go at you why would he use all three possibles of wife/husband/partner? It was clearly a general statement about the people who actually do these things, not you.
It’s not hard to say , sorry about the misunderstanding . When you make a comment like that , it’s up to you , to clarify , if someone takes it the wrong way .
If it was a misunderstanding, fine, but in the context of the conversation it was very easy for me to take it that way. I’ve offended people before accidentally . It’s not a big deal to clarify your position. I didn’t see any real attempt there .
But it’s not a big deal . I was irritated last night . Mildly annoyed this morning. But it’s just a forum . Who gives a toss what some random thinks .