Both sides argue the extremes.
Seems to me Benji has more of a messaging issue than anything.
Family first doesn't mean you don't turn up early or stay late. It just means setting some boundaries around it so it doesn't consume you and your family isn't always the last thought.
A lot of the guys have turned up early to training when it was their time off. Assuming this could be family time, yet they are still there.
I actually think Benji just means being home to have dinner as a family and help around the house with chores / homework whatever before the kids go to bed.
I'm sure once the wife dozes off, he gets a few things in for the next day.
With the team we have now, half a season will tell us where we are and where the problems lie. Until then, we should enjoy what's to come.