Yeah GCT, there are many things that have to be considered and juggled by those that are trying to run junior competitions, with the vast majority of officials very generously giving up an incredible amount of their time as volunteers to keep them running. As such, I am generally loath to aim criticism their way, but the split at club level seemed to be catering to egos and was carried out in a manner that certainly justifies some.
I have no answers with regards to the lopsided abilities in show in juniors. I am however, strongly of the belief that big kids should not have to play up just because they're big. That's the games attraction. It's a combat sport and whilst we're talking kids, it's all relative in my opinion. A good coach - and I appreciate that not all teams have experienced coaches, can usually explain to kids the techniques to take on their bigger opponent. Still, that's not really what juniors is all about. But rather children running, learning and being part of a team that wins or loses and comes back to training because they want to be with their mates.
And when related back to my original post in the present discussion, that is the key to what occurred, they want to be with their mates. The good thing is that a couple of months in, our newbies our now becoming good mates.
As for the big kids, my first post in this thread is where I stand on the issue, in that the really big kids can often be put back in their place by their faster or skilled peers. That said, there certainly seem to be some taking advantage of rules that allow them to play in grades below their true age and they need to be addressed.
My son is far from the biggest, but tall and I am encouraging him to backup for our 9's in preparation for our return match against the giants that mauled us later in the year. For mine the refs have a duty to take size into consideration when enforcing rules, particularly for the younger ones. Took a tackling bag home from training a few weeks back and it has worked wonders with his confidence, helping turn him from an arm grabber into a reasonably aggressive all in defender that is getting ready to return serve to those he considers act bullies.